Sincerity Can Be Cruel And Harmful

There are people who pride themselves on always being “very” sincere.
That they tell you everything without you asking them.
That they cannot “shut up” anything.
They are people who believe that sincerity is a virtue.
And it is.

But the sincerity not asked for.
Sincerity without empathy.
It is pure cruelty.
It is pure selfishness and pride.

It is trying to impose on someone a vision of the world that they may not need.
That maybe he doesn’t want to.
Or that it can do you a lot of harm.

If you before hoisting sincerity.
You don’t put yourself in the other person’s shoes.
You are not able to think about the effect of your words on others.

Maybe it’s that you don’t care about the other one.
Maybe it’s that you don’t care exactly what the other person might feel.
And the only thing you want is to “look” good.
It is to be able to say that I am always sincere.

That I am always sincere.
Thus putting on a pin.
Picking up a medal.
Using another existence to polish yours.

We cannot use sincerity without tact.
Careless.
We cannot use other people to consider ourselves better people.
We can’t because it’s not fair.

Before showing off our sincerity.
We should work our emotional intelligence.
You should remember the common, the collective, the humanity.
We should assess when it is necessary and when it is not.

When we are necessary and when we are not.
When is it better that we not give our opinion.
Because if.

Sometimes the best thing you can do for someone else.
It is listening to it in silence.
It is not crushing it.
It is not telling him: I told you.

It is not making firewood from the fallen tree and not throwing it into the fire.
Sometimes being silent is also wanting.
Accompany without stoking the drama.
Without delving into the wound.
To be.
No need to constantly remember that you are still with your sincerity.